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I think that's a very childish way to respond. I gave you my reasons why I find it odd. You have not shared your thoughts on why it's not. Resorting to name calling when people disagree with you doesn't really benefit your case.
That's not entirely comparable, watching a video of consenting people or finding a picture someone posted of themselves it's no the same as a picture someone didn't mean for other people to see. Honestly the argument of that it's all the same because you have to use a camara to record it is very flimsy. Many people go around taking pictures of strangers to pleasure themselves? Yeah sure, that doesn't make it any less questionable. If you saw a man taking pictures of a girl in a short skirt or trying to get a snap of their underwear that'd be undoubtedly creepy. Since taking pics in the name our shared fetish is not as invasive it's maybe a grayer area, but I'm sure you can see where it's coming from.Niks wrote: ↑Mon Jul 18, 2022 3:02 pm
2) How do you think porn material (fetish or non fetish) is created, does it just magically appear out of thin air or do people actually use a camera or a video recording device to create it? Have you ever seen or heard how big the 'voyeur' fetish community is? Well, I can tell you many many many people go out with their smart phones to record such things in public for their own upskirt, camel toe, booty, high heels and all those type of fetishes. Again, how do you think its created? By the taking photos and videos. So if you find that 'odd' - your completely in the wrong place.
Yes I am, actually. With how niche this fetish is, the best way to get what I want is to pay for it, no way around it. I made a thread a while ago on the XXX section sharing some creators that are cool making custom watch content and asking if anybody had recommendations of other creators. And yes, of course the forum is beneficial even if I get custom content elsewhere, why wouldn't it be? The content posted here is obviously relevant to my fetish, and there's some decent discussion too. But that's beside the point.Niks wrote: ↑Mon Jul 18, 2022 5:19 pm If we all followed that mentality of 'only sharing or viewing consented material' with signed model release's - seeing how niche our fetish already is, this forum would not exist, nor would more than half of the content on this forum for your pleasure to view and do as you please to it. You would have to pay to see all material - are you the type to pay for material? You tell me, so would this forum even be beneficial to you if that was the case? Tell me.
Well you are a brave person to be upfront and tell people about your fetish, so respect to you for that as not many have that courage. Yes I agree, of course you don't want to tell someone you take pictures and masturbate to them, that wouldn't go down well with any person - even I wouldnt ever do that. I guess geographically it can make a difference on how people perceive or interpret things depending where you live. For me, I have had a little more bad experiences than good, so I just tend to keep my mouth closed about it.marna wrote: ↑Mon Jul 18, 2022 8:59 pm To each their own. I have had this fetish all my life, but I have never felt the need to take pictures of anyone. I have told a great many people about my fetish, and yes, they do think it’s a bit strange, but I’ve never had any bad experiences with telling people about it. If I told them I also took pictures of women wearing watches and masturbated to them at home, I suppose that would indeed be frowned upon.
You seem to know this place better then me, so if it’s status quo among watch-fetishists to take pictures of women in public places and masturbate to them at home, then I’m sorry if I spoke out of turn. Good luck on your future photo shoots
Totally agree with you regarding paying for what you want to see. Its the same for me, as mentioned above I make my own content too. I have tried to sell some stuff here when I started out but at that time people were more into seeing 'free' stuff than paying for something, granted a few people bought it. Creating content is not easy, so to go into town spending all day taking videos and pictures, who pays for my travel fare and food whilst I am out all day? Me. Who pays for the models, hotels, food, drinks and travel expenses when I make videos? Me. Somehow, I need to make that money back and make a little more on top so I can create more stuff and get more creative with it. If I started posting all of that stuff here for free, I would be broke. Lucky I have some people who are willing to pay for such custom content - I do it as a hobby, its fun and enjoyable on the side of my main job.watchlover05 wrote: ↑Mon Jul 18, 2022 9:05 pmYes I am, actually. With how niche this fetish is, the best way to get what I want is to pay for it, no way around it. I made a thread a while ago on the XXX section sharing some creators that are cool making custom watch content and asking if anybody had recommendations of other creators. And yes, of course the forum is beneficial even if I get custom content elsewhere, why wouldn't it be? The content posted here is obviously relevant to my fetish, and there's some decent discussion too. But that's beside the point.Niks wrote: ↑Mon Jul 18, 2022 5:19 pm If we all followed that mentality of 'only sharing or viewing consented material' with signed model release's - seeing how niche our fetish already is, this forum would not exist, nor would more than half of the content on this forum for your pleasure to view and do as you please to it. You would have to pay to see all material - are you the type to pay for material? You tell me, so would this forum even be beneficial to you if that was the case? Tell me.
First I'd like to apologize, it seems my message came off as judgemental which was not the intention. I was just trying to point out that there's a little bit more nuance in why someone may find the picture taking 'odd' which isn't related to our fetish being 'odd'. I thought it was a distinction worth discussing but I expressed myself too harshly, didn't mean for you to feel attacked or judged. Of course I don't intend to ruin this forum or whatever you mean.
You compare me criticising your actions to criticising others taste in watches? That’s not the same at all – and nobody on this forum is doing that, because we all know that’s insensitive and rude. Sure, maybe I was being a bit insensitive when I called your hobby odd, but then again, it’s hard for me to not be harsh when I believe what you are doing is kind of wrong. You call out hypocrisy, as I also have watched or shared videos from xhamster or others sites, but I don’t think that’s a fair comparison. I have read your stories in the thread about stories, where you sneak touch, kiss, lick or even rub your dick on a girls watch, without consent and without them knowing, and you write about it as if you did nothing wrong. I think we have some very different opinions on what is right and wrong, so I don’t know if I even could explain to you how posting an xhamster link on this forum is completely different from taking and sharing photographs of complete strangers without consent. I’m sorry, but you have crossed a line you shouldn’t cross. Fetish or no.Niks wrote: ↑Mon Jul 18, 2022 10:14 pm All I am saying is, people are at all different levels in this fetish - some are still trying to open up about it and some are hardcore into it, for some people it has taken serious amount of guts and courage to come here to express themselves and others are straight up open about it. So to say things like 'I find it odd and strange you do this and that' - its wrong. There are certain types of watches which I dislike, but I wouldn't go to those threads on here and be like 'its so strange, how can you even get off to those type of watches'. I just respect its whats someone likes so, who am I to rain on their parade.